Wings in the wind

It’s happening again! I’m unfolding my adventure wings for an overseas trip. In September, my study abroad group flies away to the world cultural capital of London for a week and then our flock migrates to The Eternal City of Rome. Our intrepid group will trek around these global centers and take in sites of literary and artistic significance. This is a double class with a robust schedule of posts, so for those who already follow this blog, be prepared to learn a few things along with me!

England 2012 Rider close upFun factoids about London:

  • Founded by the Romans 2,000 years ago as Londonium
  • The world’s most-visited city as measured by international arrivals
  • Estimated population of 8.6 million; metro area totals 13.8 million
  • More than 300 languages are spoken within greater London
  • The London Underground (subway) is the oldest underground railway system in the world

Retrace the steps of an earlier visit to London and other parts of England by clicking on September 2012 in the right sidebar for a series of blog posts. They come complete with photos and humor. Hint: read from the bottom to the top.

Fun facts about Rome:

  • One of the oldest continuously occupied sites in Europe – a history spanning two and Stairs with ornamental grassesa half thousand years
  • The 14th most visited city in the world, 3rd most visited in the EU
  • Estimated population of 2.9 million; metro area totals 4.3 million
  • Hosts Vatican City, the only existing example of a country within a city
  • Birthplace of Baroque style and Neoclassicism (I know just enough about this to be dangerous)

 

A nest sent from heaven

wreath with pretend nestWhenever we visit my sister-in-heart, I look forward to seeing which cheery seasonal wreaths are decorating her entrance, one on each of the double doors. They remind me of her and how she swings open the portal to her home with a big smile.

Her smile had been put to the test, though. In 2015 she’d lost her husband of nearly four decades to cancer while she was recovering from major health issues. At his memorial service, Linda was pale and tired and I thought then about more hard things ahead for her. There would be many, but probably the toughest would be walking into their home. Widowed a few years before I met her brother, I discovered that a person’s presence fills far more space than the physical form.

Together with her kids, other family, and her friends she traveled the valley of grief. Faith was a shelter for her soul. A year after Greg’s death, she decided to sell their home – the place they had built together, where their three kids grew from teenagers to adults, where Greg nurtured the park-like grounds – the place she called Foggy Ridge. Another kind of grieving began.

On a day we arrived to help with preparations for the move, the doors were dressed with pinwheels of floral color, each sporting a cute pretend bird’s nest. While we were sorting things to keep or toss, Linda said, “Hey, did you see the extra nest in my wreath?” She went to the front door she keeps locked shut and to our amazement she showed us a real nest directly above the decorative one, blending into the design. I touched it gently and it was still wet – a circle of mud, grass and twigs. It had appeared, complete, the previous morning.

A day or two later, Linda posted a picture on Facebook. One luminous blue egg. Then another. And finally three perfect robin’s eggs perched in that avian orb. “Linda!” I posted, “You have eggs!” My heart skipped in delight. A blessing of encouragement from heaven, everyone agreed.

One egg

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A few more days and another picture on Facebook: The chicks had hatched and sprouted feathers. It seems the timing of this miracle of new life was also perfect. The day she moved, she says the chicks were “all sitting in a tree with mom and dad singing a robin song.” Linda and her chicks fledged at the same time.

Feathers

Learn more about robins.

 

Where miracles are born

Yachats sunset

Thinking about a message from Tiffany Bluhm…

It’s the 80 percent that looks really good, she says. The part of me that works well. Ticks along like a nicely balanced pendulum in the predictable rhythm of my days. But it’s the other 20 percent of me that is like a wetlands of the soul. A place that absorbs the storms, gets all tossed around and then is drained.

I don’t like slogging through that marsh. It’s hard to walk through there because it’s muddy. There’s stuff growing but it looks kind of weird after the wind has calmed and the rain has settled back into the clouds. And yet that’s the section of my shoreline, apparently, that God is interested in. The crushed, messy part, strewn with the flotsam of days of tough sailing.

Lean into the pain, she says. That’s where the deep work is done. Where I can rise like a phoenix from the remainder, the wreckage that I keep tucked away because it doesn’t always work quite right. Little gusts of dysfunction escape once in a while and I say, hey, where did that come from? I am so OVER that. Thanks but I’d rather not lean into that, I say. Took me long enough to recover the first time around.

I know I can’t depend on an uncertain foundation. Can’t stay in a cabin I built in the marsh. I have to move inland, to solid ground. The only way through, the only path is straight across the mud. Through the barnacle-covered memories.  And weedy nightmares that cling to my ankles.

There’s somebody behind you, she says. Someone that needs what you have, what you can offer. Who needs the peace that accompanies a new journey of hope. Not the stuff YOU have planned – your tidy package is nice, it looks good, but it’s not the canvas God wants, she says. It’s that broken place, that place of shadows where miracles are born. Where the loveliness of your soul can burst forth and truly be seen. In the dark.

A time to see differently

20151107_12264020151107_111909Late autumn has its own special rhythm in the northwest, when, color by color, the trees bid farewell to their leafy crowns and stand in spare elegance.  The flashy maples go out with a riot of red, as if to say, we’re bad and we’ll be back! Others more modestly shed silver-backed discs or little yellow sails. Stately heralds of the season, they become all bark and branches reaching into the sky. Below them, the grass and sidewalk lay replete with a harvest of tints and shades and hues.

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In the park a few stoic walkers populate the paths. Migratory birds land on the lake, wild feathers tucked away for a short rest amid raindrops. I lean toward a hedge to take a picture of winter berries and a tiny bird flits through the branches squeaking out an equally petite chit, chit, chit, then quiets.

Each week since mid-September the earth has slowly, gently, shed its summer energy as it slips into wintery slumber. Perhaps I am a devotee of fall because it feels so much like sanctuary. A place without too much but just enough. Ungarlanded and yet comfortable in its own lovely way.

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Fall reminds me that my soul craves a place to retreat and reflect, to listen for that other voice, the one that restores and encourages and guides. A refuge where the spiritual part of me can just abide without a to-do list. Where the heart can call out to heaven and feel power, hope, love, curiosity.

In the fall, the trees give us new eyes. It is a time to see differently. To walk more slowly, finding answers, or perhaps more interesting questions, in our steps.

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Postcards from the park

20150404_125425The sun called me out for a walk today and my feet took me to Gene Coulon Park. It’s a place for walkers. No animals and no bikes. While I am an animal lover and I think bikes are cool, it is great to stroll and not have to worry about fangs or whirling spokes. Everyone ambles along the lakeside at their own pace, frequently passed by joggers in all kinds of healthy living gear. I am sure everyone’s arteries are greatly enhanced by their fluorescent sneakers. Strolling toward the park entrance, I put on the brakes to enjoy the siren call of rhodie trumpets.

20150404_122649At the park, I admire remnants of an old pier marching alongside a new one. Then a small gaggle of domestic geese, trying out the spot usually occupied by Canada geese, taking a walk on the wild side.

20150404_122734I look for the turtles that usually emerge from the mud in springtime to sun on the partially submerged logs off the lake shore, but they must still be slumbering in the depths.

There’s a sailing club at this south end of Lake Washington and I have made many photos of their little crafts bobbing in the water. Today the clouds are bobbing overhead as pretty as a dream.

Wandering along on a spring day in the park would hardly be complete without coming across a wedding party, adding Technicolor dresses and lovely tresses to the greenery. All of us in jeans and T-shirts stop a minute to enjoy the scene … I’m glad for them that it’s20150404_123439 not raining.

Around the corner I find a solitary sailor perched on a rock, much better than a turtle.

20150404_123654A field of daisies has popped up and I brave the very wet grass to take in their pungent fragrance of newness.

It’s a day of tapestries, the kind that a park encourages, with life flowing along the paths and roadway in full regalia. Around the curve and along another pier, there is a group of guys who’ve launched a squadron of model boats. They appear to be racing but are silent as golfers, focused on their marker buoys in the water.

20150404_124143I linger to watch a little crew of ducks in the midst of the sails. They are slightly alarmed but stick together, paddling and keeping their distance from the unknown intruders.

20150404_123837There’s a sculpture of walkers at the entrance to the park and now and again, someone dresses them for the seasons. Now they are kitted out in Easter bonnets, or so it appears to me.

20150404_124926It’s been a rich hour and my busy week is far behind me, drifting away on the clouds and rippling lake waves.

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The moments before spring

Each day a IMGP4029moment before spring bursts into view, the earth exhales a few more blossoms, some leafy buds, while birds give song to that little hope, the one that takes root in March looking past April for May, for warm, soft air and open windows and skies that put robin’s eggs to shame.

Flickers clatter against the metal chimney flue and black-capped midgets call chick-a-dee-deeIMGP3941-dee-dee , hopping through petals fallen by a rainstorm. In one tall pine a glorious eagle eyes the lake’s watery world, watching for a flash of scales. Canada geese, itinerant wanderers, graze along, looking perfectly at home across the border.

We visited Mukilteo Lighthouse Park pressing through a watery, grey day, convinced that soon we’ll be tucking away warm jackets but glad we have them today. A few other sturdy folks stroll around the small park, as the ferries come and go with a rhythm that feels like the tide, washing in, washing out, carrying cars, people and their dreams and worries.

IMGP4124We find tulips in well tended gardens and soak in the color, contrasted against the monotone clouds. Hubby takes a photo of a marooned kite leaning on a chimney of the lightkeeper’s residence and I suggest naming the photo Unplanned Layover.

Along the beach, someone has lit a fire pit and we stand in the warmth, a little unwilling to admit we still crave the smoke and cinders as we lean toward them

IMGP4135thinking of another, kinder season.

Finally, we head up to the Red Cup Café where we find friendly if slightly forgetful service, steaming soup, homemade sandwiches with awesome bread, and a rustic, quirky atmosphere that feels like someone’s beach cabin living room. The room is filled with graying heads interspersed with the multicolored locks of youth, everyone involved in timeless conversation. Wide windows frame the bay below, cool and quiet, unwilling yet to release spring among us but unable to stop her cheery advance columns of blooms.

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Taking flight

A late winter day waning into early spring has drawn many to enjoy the lake near my friend’s home. The lack of rain swells the numbers of visitors as flotillas of birds float along the placid waters. Skateboarders, cyclists, wanderers, runners with jogging buggies, and a large assortment of dogs flow by me as I watch a flicker assemble himself at the top of a leafless tree and unleash his sentinel call. The hoots, blats, honks and trills of birds curl through the air like madrona bark … the gorgeous tones of a hidden blackbird is especially lush. We are an unlikely crew, humans and animals, visitors and neighbors, joined for a few minutes by a common body of water.

Just passing through on the way to spring.
Just passing through on the way to spring.

I keep stopping to enjoy marching mallards, first the drake then his girl following a few steps behind. They waddle back and forth across the path, taking flight when kids can’t resist racing toward them. A few feet away their larger, less nervous cousins, Canada geese, stroll along adding contrast to the grass they are intent on cropping (and fertilizing) ignoring humans and, amazingly, the many dogs. Maybe the geese have figured out what a leash means. A brown form pokes up and cruises across the water. I am not sure if it’s a nutria or a beaver and wish I had my small binoculars.

This lakeside stop is just ducky!
This lakeside stop is just ducky!

It is nearly dusk and the flotillas are stretching their wings and chattering more. In a moment, they lift as one, all wings and bird noise, off to a destination hidden within their calls. I meander home, taking pictures of early berries and blooms, feeling a little more whole than when I started.

The many become one - a beautiful moment.
The many become one – a beautiful moment.
Stunning winter color along the path home.
Stunning winter color along the path home.

A place to feel right with the world

Ruckle Park is my favorite place on Salt Spring Island to take in dramatic scenery and shoreline. But for a restorative walk through forest and meadow, I always enjoy Duck Creek Park. The trails are kept up nicely and allow for a short or longer easy hike. Benches donated in honor of loved ones are scattered along the trails for those who need a rest or a place to contemplate. Simon, my brother-in-law, says it’s a place that makes visitors feel as though all is right with the world.

A place in the forest to rest and reflect.
A place in the forest to rest and reflect.

We pass other wanderers, most with dogs. A gentle, overweight boxer. A very happy Labrador. A border collie cross with a red bandana and a chipper jaunt. Salt Spring has the friendliest dogs ever. Most of the resident canines spend their time smiling broadly and saying howdy to everybody in dog language, which usually involves rubbing copious amounts of dog hair on nearby legs and sitting down on the feet attached to those legs while emitting large, contented doggy sighs.

A genial welcome on the trail from a sweet Labrador. See, I told you he was smiling!
A genial welcome on the trail from a sweet Labrador. See, I told you he was smiling!

On this day, a lady was walking the trails with three small dogs and the happy Lab pictured above. As our group approached, she called out, asking if we had any dogs. When we replied in the negative, she immediately put one of the small dogs in my hubby’s arms. Somewhat startled, he assumed Simon knew her and gamely held the little pooch for a bit. Meanwhile, the lady dogwalkers was on a verbal roll, telling us that people who owned large dogs needed to know how to handle them and most didn’t and that was because they were afraid of the dogs and they needed to get over that, “I mean right now!” The small dogs surged around our legs, tangling leashes and tussling with each other. The Lab contentedly deposited herself on the nearest foot, oblivious to her human’s aggravation about other large dogs. The lady wrapped up her self-described diatribe by declaring that people who did not know how to handle big dogs should “GET A CAT. That’s what I say! I’ve got plenty of ’em!” By now the Lab was a bit discouraged with the delay…

Are we there yet?
Are we there yet?

Finally, she and her pack moved on. We then learned that Simon did not in fact know her. (We always assume he knows everybody on-island – it’s a pretty small place.) I kept giggling and teasing hubby. We wandered on, plucking fragrant blackberries from the side of the trail, watching dragonflies shimmer in the sun and chatting about anything brought to mind by a lovely late summer day. With so much dark news of late, it is good to feel, for a few moments, that all is right with the world.

It's hard to stop eating the blackberries - so sweet and fragrant.
It’s hard to stop eating the blackberries – so sweet and fragrant.
A place to be right with the world.
A place to be right with the world.
In the forest, we found a gorgeous feather from a flicker - orange, black, grey and white. A small gift of beauty.
In the forest, we found a gorgeous feather from a flicker – orange, black, grey and white. A small gift of beauty.

Signs along the way

Signs have always fascinated me for some weird reason. A few caught my eye around the island.

Great color on the Rock Salt Café sign in Fulford Harbour!
Great color on the Rock Salt Café sign in Fulford Harbour!
How courteous can you be to parking violators? Only in Canada...
How courteous can you be to parking violators? Only on a  Canadian island!
The ultimate polite no parking sign!
An eminently polite no parking sign!
Picturesque post office
Picturesque post office

Around Salt Spring there’s some pretty creative signage, such as this collection greeting vehicles off-loading from the Fulford ferry terminal.

Reminds me of that song, Signs, by the Canadian group, Five Man Electrical Band. Has a catchy sound.
Reminds me of that song, Signs, by the Canadian group, Five Man Electrical Band. Has a catchy sound to go with this catchy look.

Hiking through Duck Creek Park, we came upon a chair with a sign. Simon, my brother-in-law, assured me that it would not be stolen. So cool.

The sign says, "A chair for anyone who would like to rest awhile. Please leave here so others may do the same."
The sign says, “A chair for anyone who would like to rest awhile. Please leave here so others may do the same.”