Her face, the gaze so like my father’s that I feel a pang. Her sturdy spirit pushes against her unreliable body and sputtering memory. We smile around the room, genetics pull us close as we count the years and treasure the minutes. How is Auntie Pam, we ask? How is your father, they ask? Auntie, uncle, cousins, nieces, sharing jokes and cups of tea and stories of good days and surgeries and babies and weather and all the bits and pieces of life that knit our tributaries into one river.
Genetics pull us close as we count the years and treasure the minutes.
He’s a darling little pork chop, we say of the newest baby, all smiles and cowlicks. He’s able to travel again, we say of our aged father, rallying his body for the trip to see and hold that baby, his great-great grandson. We talk about blue eyes and green, and the names of generations gone, and how mother and daughter were buried together because they were never apart in life and it seemed right. And yes, we will go and visit the place where they lay in their forever embrace while we are in England gathering up and tending to our roots.